Monday, January 11, 2010

Post #2

While waiting for an adoption placement...I decided to take a watercolor class.  I found that, although I love to paint, I'm not super great at it.  I have to work really hard at it.  Watercolor is not as easy as it looks...
One of the things that we did on a daily basis was take photographs of things we would like to draw or paint.  It was a daily assignment.  I loved it.  I love taking pictures.  Here is one of my favorites...yep, I even painted it.  :)  Simple lines, simple life, ... I can totally envision myself sitting in the boat with a good book, cooler with dark chocolate, bottles of water, and some cheese,  (No wine - I'm alone and I might not be able to make it back to shore.) a few cushions and a blanket to recline on.  Of course, I would need a pedicure before lifting anchor...



Back to reality...
The painting was matted, framed, and presented to my father for his birthday that year. 

It started out as a joke.  I took pictures of a lot of boats that day, texted my dad that I found the perfect boat for him, and sent him this picture.  I actually like the serenity of the boat, but most of all, I love the taco shop on the dock that the boat was attached to.

Saturday, January 9, 2010

Two, Two, The Twins Turn Two!

Two already? 
It doesn't seem like two years ago I was sitting in a birthing room waiting for the nurses to bring the boys to me. 
At that time,
  • I didn't know there were two boys. (We knew one was a boy, but didn't know the gender of the other.)
  • I didn't know the love and joy that adopted children would bring. 
  • I didn't know the depth of emotion that I would endure while struggling with my desire to hold tight to my joy and love for my new children ~ and at the same time ~ feel the despair of their birth mom.
  • I didn't know that twins, although very similar, are so very different.
  • I didn't know they would grow up so fast.

Isaiah and Aiden ~ @ 1 month old



What I know now...
  • I love these two boys so much it hurts.
  • I can't imagine my life without them.
  • Disciplining twins is almost impossible.
  • They are always filthy dirty.
  • The only time I can photograph them together...
    • is when they are sleeping..

Terrible Twos...here we come.

Happy Birthday, Aiden and Isaiah!

We love you very much!

Friday, January 8, 2010

Project 365 - Revisited/Revised/Rewritten... Post #1...(4 days late)

Last year, in 2009, there was a group of people who challenged themselves and each other to take a photo each day, hence the title Project 365.  I was not part of that group.  There is not a single day that goes by that I don't document something with my camera.  However, Project 365 involved posting the picture on a group site...not sure which one...maybe Flicker.  Anyway.  I just don't take the time to upload daily on various sites.  Not lazy - it is a case of too many kids, too much laundry, starting a new business, learning to balance checkbooks and do something called reconcile (what the heck?  I don't ever balance anything!) 
So, taking their idea of regularly posting pictures, I'm going to do
Project 52
I will post one meaningful picture for each week of the year (ideally every Monday).  Yes, I know, I'm already behind.  I will catch up right now by posting this lovely Christmas morning photo.
Post #1

Christmas Morning - After the gifts...
Ashley is wearing her traditional red plaid flannel jammies, she is holding Aiden; while Shelby, looking ever so trendy in her sweats is holding Isaiah (who refuses to let go of his ball); and in the front, with a ten gallon grin, showing off his 'Mater sunglasses is Tyler.
We always take a family photo in front of the tree...this year...we forgot.
At least I got the kids!  :)

Monday, January 4, 2010

Ashley and Cooking...

For years....many, many years ~ I tried to teach Ashley to cook.  She never wanted to learn.  She didn't like cooking.  She didn't even like being in the kitchen.  I even went to far one time to ask her,
"How are you going to eat when you are married?"

Her response...
"He better know how to cook, or he better be rich so he can take me out every night."

I should know better than to ask these questions...

So imagine my surprise when the other night she came home from hanging out with her friends and almost accused me of not teaching her how to cook.  Excuse me?  Did she seriously want to go down that road with me?  I think not...


But guess what?  It got her thinking about cooking, and after church last week, she made dinner.  Yep, spaghetti!  We all LOVE spaghetti at our house.  It was good, and she did it mostly by herself.  There is your signature dish Ashley.

Sunday, January 3, 2010

Christmas Eve

Yes, I know it is over.  Yes, I know it is a new year, but I didn't share our traditions and celebrations with you.  :) 

Our Christmas Eve tradition is to celebrate at Tim's parents' house after attending the Candle Light Service at church.  To me, Christmas Eve service is always special and reverent. 

Last year, I found at that it can also be noisy and distracting.  We had two 1 year olds with us.  I spent most of the service in the senior high room with two other dads (how did I get that duty and not Tim?), and our children. 
This year though...
I was prepared. 
  • I fed lots of high carb foods to our toddlers before the service. 
  • I had diapers changed. 
  • We sat in the back near people who understood noisy children, and love my kids. 
  • Most of all, I prepared myself towards the less than perfect experience that this special service was going to be.
When my kids found the candles...I didn't freak out that they tried to eat them.
When DJ was playing peak a boo with the boys during prayer...I didn't shush them or give any dirty looks.
When they were crawling around on the floor and under the chairs...I didn't scold or reprimand them (Aunt Nana got a stern look from me ~ she instigated it!)
When Isaiah was trying to escape down the row...OK - I bolted.  I rushed down the row and scolded Ashley for letting him past her. 
I was nearing my breaking point.

I kept hearing other children acting out as well.  I kept reminding myself that I'm not in this alone.  All the while, I'm wondering..."This is such an important service to so many people.  There are so many people who only attend church 2 or 3 times a year and they need to hear this service.  Why don't we have a nursery open?" 
Guess what?  This year they did have a nursery open.  I just didn't get the email.  Fortunately, most people were entertained when Aiden took off running down the aisle to find his dad.  Many people thought that we were brave to have our children in a church service. (Bravery is a noble attribute.)  Most of all, I enjoyed our service, my kids learned to sit for a little while in the big church, and I learned that my children do not need to be perfect.  God loves them and He is helping me to raise them. They were right where He wanted them to be.

Christmas Eve at Grammy and Gramps's House

Aiden started off the night with opening the first present.
See Kyra (the dog) in the background?  She loves to open presents.  She will steal your present if she can so she can open it.  Our kids have learned that you have to keep your gifts up off the ground when she is around.


Here is Isaiah...with a little help from sister.
Yes, he has a scratch on his forehead.  The kid is a walking poster for danger.


Tyler...


Kyra finally got her turn.  She got a squeak toy!


Tyler was worried that Babi needed help so he helped with most of her gifts.


Woo hoo! Water bottles.  We never have enough around here.


Mangoes!  Yum...

Ashley also got her letterman jacket from Grammy and Gramps, but it hasn't arrived yet.






When Aiden discovered that Babi was getting food and candy, he decided that he would help her unwrap her gifts.  Aiden and Babi both like sweets.


Gramps got a hoof pick...

A really cool hoof pick.
I ordered one of these for Tim a few years ago.  They can seriously poke an eye out, and clean horse hooves.


Gramps admitted to peeking at his gifts before Grammy wrapped them.  He said this wasn't the one he was waiting for so Tyler could help him.


Ohhh...I think this is the one! 


Yep.  A new headstall.  Apparently he has had his eye on this one.  This is the one he found in the closet before it was wrapped.


Yeah!  Horse treats!
When you are county people and you have horses and other large animals that you love and care for...
People buy you gifts for your animals.  Especially when you have a tendency to purchase anything else you want...


See what I mean?
Ashley got a bag of horse grain.  :)
Our animals are loved.


Gramps always buys Grammy jewelry.  This year is was a star filled with diamonds.  It is very pretty.  I think she likes it!


Grammy also got a Barnes and Noble gift card. 
There is something about going into a store and not having to worry about how much you're going to spend.  She had so much fun shopping on her B & N card last year.  Hopefully she will have just as much fun this year.


Speaking of "poke your eye out"...
look what movie was on when we were unwrapping gifts!
"He's gonna shoot his eye out!"
The boys loved the show.


Yum.  Her very own box of cheese danish.  She loves her cheese danish...

No, Ashley, it isn't a real bottle of champagne ~ it is sparkling cider.  She enjoys a bottle of sparkling cider too!


And for the Grand Finale!....

Party Poppers ~ The Old Fashion Way!

Yep, the Grand Finale...thank you for that lovely show, Isaiah.
Oh boy....

Saturday, January 2, 2010

Super Nanny I Am...

NOT!
I am weak...
I am easily amused...
I am totally snowballed...
I tend to spoil...
I am weak.

We decided that the boys were ready to sleep in toddler beds.
(Yes, we are delusional.)
So, I asked Ashley to assemble to the beds.
(because she's good at stuff like that ~ and I felt her eyes needed a break from reading)
When Ashley became jaded with the assembly...(she put the rail on upside down)
Dad and Isaiah took over...

Isaiah is holding the bed steady for dad.  He is a good helper.


I think Isaiah must be telling daddy how to do it the right way...

That night...
I tucked Aiden and Isaiah into their toddler beds, kissed them goodnight, and walked out of the room.  (Closing the door of course.)

I could hear giggling,
I could hear squealing,
I could hear maracas shaking,...
but I did not go in.

Then, the door slowly opened, but quickly was shut.
4 times this went on.
Finally, I peaked at the door as it was opening. 
Aiden was opening the door, but Isaiah, knowing what was awaiting, kept shutting it.  I told them to get back into bed.
They giggled and laughed, but made it to the bed, maracas and all.

Over the course of the next 1 1/2 hours, I would go in and put them back into their beds, take away toys that might be hazardous, and shut the closet door.

Then, finally, the gift...
complete silence.
I didn't know whether to rejoice or worry...

Isaiah saved me the trouble... out he crept.
All I had to do at that point was whisper, "Get back in bed."
He slammed the door, and ran to his bed.

Aiden, as is his usual habit, awoke at 10:30 and wanted out.  He was standing at the door crying.

This is where he ended up...



In my bed!
With my cat snuggled up with him!

Before I snuggled in for the night, I had to take one last glimpse into the toddler bedroom...

Here was Isaiah, on the far bed with Aiden's blankets,
the other bed had his stuffed animals, another blanket, Pokey Little Puppy book, and flip flops. We had an extra crib mattress so we had put it next to the bed in case they did a lot of rolling around and fell out of bed. (we have concrete floors)   You can see the boot that was obviously removed from the closet as well.

That was the first and last night that they slept in their toddler beds. 
We'll try again later this week...

Thursday, December 31, 2009

This is what Saturdays were made for...

Most Saturdays we are running around doing "stuff".  There is always something that we are doing or some place we are going.  Last Saturday, we did what many people do on Saturdays...we were lazy!

This is a huge development for us.  We spend very little time watching tv.  I limit not only the amount of time in front of the tv, but also the content viewed.

Take a step into our totally out of the normal Saturday... we were rested and relaxed!


Tyler and Aiden become great friends when the television is on.  Aiden frequently sits right next to Tyler when early morning tv is on the schedule.


Isaiah will watch tv for a little while, but...
(he looks so tiny)

he is quickly bored and looking for an audience (he just turned around to see if he could entertain his brothers better than the tv)

...still attempting to divert attention to him...

...rolling around like a potato bug... this kid cracks me up!


Then there is the teenager and MY dog!  Notice the book...it's seldom far from her during the winter break.  She has the opportunity to read anything she wants for 2 weeks!  (current selection: 19 Minutes by Jodi Picoult)  Note: She is still in jammies, too!

My Ellie...she has such a rough life...


I get to do laundry.  Every woman dreams of this job.  Notice we have mountains of laundry not piles.  It is sad and pathetic.  At least the laundry room itself is a fun place now.  Thank you Tim for building a lovely place for me to slave away.  {Note to self: Paint exterior door.}


Jessey, Ashley's dog, even decided to hang out in the laundry room with me.  She wasn't much help.


New show...same spot...grabbed the football though...maybe a college game was on.
Maybe not...Tyler is too involved wit his thoughts for football...


Houston...we have a showered teenager!  Notice the cheese danish in front of her?  That was one of her Christmas presents.  :)  She loves stuff like that.  I don't buy it - it isn't healthy.  Look - curly hair.  If you scroll up you will see straight hair.  Oh the wonders of a woman.  ...Still has that book.


Dressed kids...we have a successful Saturday!  Kinda.  Not really sure what Aiden has on.  It appears as if Dad has decided to join the Couch Potato Kids for the afternoon.

I think this is a great New Year's Resolution suggestion...
take one day during the week to stay in jammies, watch mindless tv, eat anything you want, and snuggle with loved ones!

I'm adding it to my list...

Saturday, December 12, 2009

Merry Christmas! ~ Our Letter to You!







In honor of new traditions...we are trying something new this year...


A Bloggie Christmas Letter!
I've been watching the amount of paper that enters and leaves this house, and let me tell you ~ it is horrifying.  Not that I'm an extreme environmentalist, but we are trying to do our part by cutting back.  So, now that you've received our Christmas photo in the mail (hopefully soon ~ working on mailing labels...) ~ please, run to the kitchen, grab a cup of coffee, a handful of dark chocolate, and get back here to enjoy catching up on our family.  I have lots of kiddos to talk about, and I'm not limited to one page.  (The real reason I love this bloggie letter!)  Also, if this is your first visit to the blog.. check the rest of the blog archive posts out.  They will give you more pictures and information about our life.  I'm sure you have nothing better to do...besides, I'm keeping the Christmas letter up until Christmas!  Then be ready...lots of cool things have been happening...more parades, a candlelight ceremony, and of course - Christmas!

Merry Christmas to all of our Family and Friends!

This year was definitely a busy one for us.  We watched the twins turn 1!  Tyler started preschool!  Ashley got her permit!  Tim and I added on a new wing to the house, and we opened a new business! 

Aiden

He is our super chunk.  His nickname is "Tank."  You can't believe the love that this gentle giant possesses.  He loves to play with trucks, tractors, trains, and push toys.  He also prefers to play alone.  He wakes up with a smile and a hug.  He loves to hug and tease. He doesn't like to wear shoes.  I'm constantly looking for his shoes because he hides them.  Aiden has great comprehension, but he doesn't use many words.  He can sign and he is great at getting his point across without speech. He is very spoiled.  He enjoys sleeping in bed with mom and dad, being a "ham" for the camera, and dancing to YMCA.  He is a constant wonder.
  




















Isaiah



Isaiah is our shy one.  He was entered into the Early Intervention Program to help with his communication and physical therapy in the spring.  His walking issues were fixed when the physical therapist popped his hip back into place.  He is able to run with the boys now. In an effort to keep up with the others, Isaiah has become a dare devil.  (Or perhaps it is just his personality...)  In May, he dove off of the couch onto our stone coffee table.  He cut his forehead open which resulted in 7 stitches.  Upon arriving home, he jumped on my skateboard and tried to ride it.  Then in October, he took a fall from a lawn chair onto my brick planter...yep.  Cut his forehead open...again...same spot.  Back to the ER... He has decided that sign language just isn't for him ~ he prefers squealing and pointing.  Although he is slightly developmentally delayed, he is begining to catch up.  He has adopted Ashley's teenage mannerisms, and he follows her around.  He will do ANYTHING for her.  His favorite toy is a ball.  It doesn't matter what type of ball...any ball will do.  He is remarkably skilled.  He can kick, catch, throw, and drop kick.  He is able to dribble a soccer ball, and kick without having to stop and line up.  He loves to tickle and be tickled.  He likes to cuddle.













Tyler

Tyler turned three in April.  He is every bit a three year old...bossy.  (Have you ever met a 3 YO that wasn't bossy?  They know it all...kinda like teenagers.)  Tyler loves to watch tv and videos, but he especially loves to learn new things.  When we finished the addition to the new house, he got to pick out his bedroom theme.  He wanted to have a cowboy room.  He got it!  I was worried about him adjusting to his new room ~ it is quite a ways away from our room, there isn't carpet (concrete flooring) and he had never slept in a "big boy bed" (twin bed), and he has a room all to himself!  Since he came to live with us he always shared a room with the twins and he slept on a toddler bed with rails.  I was nervous.  He was excited!  Not once did he say that he wanted to go back to his old room.  His adoption was final in July.  (Thus the name change...last Christmas his name was Stephan.)  He loves his new name.  He was the one to give us the final say on what his new name would be.  Let me tell you...I was worried.  He hadn't agreed on any of the names we suggested and it was the last day that we had to make a name change.  Ashley suggested a name (on a whim) and he yelled from the backseat, "Yes!  I like that name.  Call me Tyler."  There you go.  In an effort to keep him socialized with peers his own age, I enrolled him in preschool.  The kid is a genius.  No ifs ands or buts about it... He enjoys preschool and playing with his friends.  He also attends AWANAS at our church.  He has to memorize bible verses each week.  He loves the time spent with mom working on his verses, but he also just plain likes to hear about the word of God.  He has the most amazing smile.



Ashley
...is a teenager.  Do I need to say more? 


She finished her soccer season with school last year and decided she wanted to try something new so she went out for track.  For never having run before, she did great!  She also did the high jump and hurdles.  It was an interesting season. During the summer, she attended a Young Life Capperneaum camp.  It was a very special time for her.  She met some great people, and made a few wonderful friends.

  Ashley played soccer with a U19 women's team at the beginning of the school year.  She really enjoyed the girls that were on the team and I think that she learned a lot.  She is, of course, playing soccer for the high school now.  She has the advantage of playing both midfielder and forward.  Her legacy of holding the most goals scored last year will be a hard record to beat, but she is attempting to reach it again.  She is playing with a new group of girls this year, and it has been interesting to watch them learn to read each other's plays.  She has scored quite a few goals...not sure how many though.  Ashley was also inducted into the National Honor Society this year, and she received an academic letter.  Her grades are obviously good.  She is learning a lot about body building and weight training and so she has moved some of her interest and time to developing weight conditioning skills.  She was the Runner Up for the Colonel's Daughter Pageant in the Fall. She has also ridden in a number of parades this year.  While we were in Texas this year, Ashley toured Baylor University.  She is smitten.  They have an equestrian club, good girl's soccer team, an honor's dorm, and it is a Christian college.  She still has two years left of high school... The biggest news of all...she got her permit!  She can now legally drive on the roads.  With having three little brothers in car seats she is definitley used to distractions!  :) 














Tim


Tim is of course still working for his parents at Roper Plumbing.  He is the President of the school board, and an active member in our church.  He teaches a class at AWANA's on Wednesday nights, and attends a men's Bible study during the week.  He doesn't rope much at all anymore.  He prefers to hang out with his  kids.  He has been kept very busy with building a large play structure for the kids, adding on to our house, and starting up a new business.  We bought a Mr. Rooter franchise this past October and are planning to be open and running the begining of January.


Robyn

Still staying home being a mom.  Actually, with toddlers, a teenager, and beginning a business I'm seldom home.  Most of my days are spent running Ashley around, playing with the boys and pretending to clean.  I'm excited to begin working a little with our new business because I like working.  I like the challenges (although I get myself stressed out easily).  I spend a lot of time with a camera around my neck.  Taking pictures has almost become an obsession.  I photograph almost everything!  (It drives Ashley crazy!)  I like to post on my blog daily, but lately weekly hasn't even been happening.  I feel like I need to play with and Photoshop every picture instead of just posting straight from the camera.  (although you may see more of the straight from the camera shots with the business just starting up)


Spring Break was spent in Tennessee this year.  It was just Tim, Ashley, and I.  It was one of our more relaxing trips that we've taken.  With the exception of a couple hikes...we did very little.  I liked it.  The boys are all old enough now that they will probably be joining us on our trips from now on. 

We didn't do any traveling or camping during the summer the way we used to.  Time just didn't permit it.  We did take several day trips to the woods just to get out.  It is nice that the woods are only a 35 minute drive from the house.  We would sleep, eat, read, relax...

We did take a week and travel to Texas as a family.  Tim and I had training for our Mr. Rooter business so my mom went along to watch the kids.  I think she had a great time, but she was a little worn out at the end of the week.  Ashley was able to go with us.  She spent a couple of days with my friend, Amy.  They went running, toured Baylor, and attend Chapel at Baylor.  Ashley came home with a goal...get enough scholarship money to attend Baylor.  :)  Not a bad goal to strive for.

We will be staying home for Christmas Day this year, and for the next few years.  If you find yourself in this area, please stop by and sit for awhile.  We love to have visitors and we love to "catch up."

May God Bless you in the new year and the many years to come!

Merry Christmas!

Love,
The Roth's
Tim, Robyn, Ashley, Tyler, Aiden, and Isaiah